The Dirty Secret

I'm going to let you in on a little secret: you're not going to always love your wedding as you are planning it. In fact, sometimes you're going to be so over your wedding you can't handle it. For those of you dreaming about your wedding but are not engaged yet, you probably think I'm tripping, but someday you'll find yourself where most of us have been.

The bridal magazines are always so happy! Happy! HAPPY!!!! and it's totally OK that you don't feel that thrilled all of the time. You're going to be uninspired at times. You're going to fight with your fiance, you're going to get mad at bridesmaids, you're going to cry about the seating chart, and you're going to get really, really mad at the people who don't RSVP when you've made it so dang easy for them!!!

And it's completely OK. Just roll with it and take each day for what it is. Maintain a sense of humor and just keep crossing things off of the TO DO list one at a time. The wedding day will be totally worth it and all of these feelings of aggravation (that you more than likely keep inside) will go away.